Boosted by adam@social.lol ("Adam Newbold"):
evs@social.lol ("Evan") wrote:
I’ve been thinking a lot about this post from @thagomizer - https://thagomizer.com/blog/2017/09/29/we-don-t-do-that-here.html
It isn’t always right to try to educate. Sometimes it won’t land, sometimes you don’t have the energy, and sometimes it’s a lost cause…
And instead of slamming your head into a wall, just tell the offender “We don’t do that here.”
No right or wrong. No explanation or defense. Just “we don’t do that **here**” with the implied “if you want to stay here you don’t do that again”