@zkat__ ("tired gay") retweeted:
As a manager I try never to do the unprompted “are you free”.
Once someone forgot to cancel a 1:1 invite and I joined alone. I messaged them “zoom”. A ping in case they were “in the zone”.
Them, not remembering there was a meeting, definitely believed they were getting fired.
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@tressiemcphd ("Tressie McMillan Cottom") wrote:
This is the rare absolute: Every single person who asks to speak with you without telling you what about is trying to violate your boundaries to their benefit. Every single person, every single time. I will not be entertaining questions.