@alicegoldfuss ("mechanical turkey") wrote:
it me but also I don't have time to let people hurt me again ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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@Kate_Kelly_Esq ("Kate Kelly") wrote:
I don't know who needs to hear this, but hyper-independence is the result of trauma.
"I don't need *anybody* & must do everything myself" really means, "My ability to trust has been injured by people systemically letting me down and failing me."
You do need people. We all do.