ireneista@irenes.space ("Irenes (many)") wrote:
we still fall into habits from the old way of thinking, now and then. we've uprooted most of the big ones, but that sort of thing gets into every aspect of a person's life, and there's always small tendrils we hadn't noticed, which we only discover when a specific context brings them up. we'll be dealing with this the rest of our body's life
and THAT'S OKAY