soatok@furry.engineer ("Soatok Dreamseeker") wrote:
The only spaces I've found where I actually feel comfortable with my queerness aren't Pride events (with or without corporate backing), they're furry conventions.
Only at furry conventions can I just... vibe with people. In my fursuit, if I want, and while that's objectively weird at least locally it's treated as normal.
If I want to do sexual things, the option is usually there. (Private room parties, some friends and friends-of-friends, etc.)
But if I just want to cuddle and laugh and talk about nerd shit for four hours, I can do it.
And that's the vibe I've been trying to cultivate around myself here on Fedi.