brib@bribstodon.xyz ("brib :neofox_floof: :Nonbinary: -> EMF 2026") wrote:
Here's an open question for Fedi: So much of life involves trying to do things where you have some control over the outcome but not a lot. Jobhunting, for example. I can make applications and learn skills and network but at the end of the day someone has to offer me money in exchange for services and they could just say no for pretty much any reason. It's so easy to jump between extremes of trying to control everything (not possible) and giving up entirely. How the hell do you navigate this sort of uncertainty?