the story of the mental health impact of agentic engineering is increasingly serious and science is not remotely keeping pace with the actual experience in the field. we have had a big problem in the software engineering community for decades with treating our teams and our *selves* as replaceable cogs who just output code and need to be able to white-knuckle our way through emotional impacts of the work and on the work, but LLMs are accelerating this tendency towards a true crisis