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faithisleaping@anarres.family ("Faith, Purple haired feminist 🧋 :v_tg: :v_lb: :v_greyace:") wrote:
One thing I wish neurotypicals understood about ADHD (and other flavors of neuro spice but I’m focusing on ADHD) is that the solution isn’t to fight it. You have to work with it.
The solution to ADHD isn’t more structure. We don’t have ADHD because we lack structure. We lack structure because ADHD brains reject it. Structure hurts. When you impose structure on someone with ADHD, you’re more likely to hurt them than to help them.