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ireneista@irenes.space ("Irenes (many)") wrote:
we don't need to deny that the feelings exist. that would be counterproductive. it's important that, whatever process we use, that process involves actually feeling things. otherwise we get a backlog of pent-up feelings that we can only deal with by building that wall higher and higher, and on a scale of decades that wall becomes an entire partitioned-off emotional state, the other side of the wall becomes an entire other person. don't do that to yourselves.